PERSPECTIVE: IDEA OF YOUR PERSONALITY IN THE EYES OF OTHER PEOPLE

 

Often, there comes a question in my mind that why do people have to be mean to others? is this portrait them in a better light in front of others? why can’t they just be kind?

Nowadays, people have started to play a game called ‘USE AND THROW’ the only difference is that earlier people used to play this game with toys but now they have replaced these toys with people. How can somebody just use the other person and later on be mean to them? do they think by doing so they their personality will look bolder?

For me the answer is a complete ‘No’!

Why can’t just people stop judging and try to make some efforts in order to get to know the other person better? Why can’t they just let the other person live their life their own way?

Answer to such situations is ‘CONTROL’. First, they will make the person feel miserable about themselves and make them question their own personality then they will try to control their lives, their emotions, their personality. But my question is WHY? Is their any way to get away from such situations and toxic people?

Everyday a person cries from inside thinking that they won’t be able to smile again! It takes a lot of courage to let the things go and move on. But the people who create such situations for others are happy! Why don’t they realize the damage they have done to one’s mind is not correct and making a joke out of it is not funny!

In an era of social networking, people have forgotten the importance of empathy. They will show that they are concerned about you, but the reality is completely opposite of it.

It makes me think that would it be difficult to live alone? ‘Yes’ at first it will be difficult however, once you get used to it at least you will your mental peace back with you and most importantly no one would be able to control you, your life, your emotions, your personality!

However, you will try to do so, but you will be nervous about it also, won’t have any courage to do so! But my friend life is not easy, it is full of struggles. It just that we have to fight everyday to survive. After all, it is the survival of the fittest!!

Just think that this time shall pass, and again you will smile, laugh at your own mistakes and be proud of yourself no matter what because it is your life and you will control it not the other person.

The courage to stand alone is within you! Don’t think about others and do what your heart wants!

Most important lesson in life is the life itself, it teaches you everything with time so till then just be positive and stick to your personality, don’t let anyone ever take away that from you because it is full of magic.

 

 

A little sparkle

 

When you come at that point of time where you don’t have anybody, and everything is going against you what would you do? What would you expect?

But then there comes a person who himself going through a lot in his life but turns your black and white life into a colorful one. It feels like the time is the same but with that person you just feel so comfortable and you think that everything will be good in the end. He makes you feel that yes life is difficult but at the same time it is beautiful, but you must change your perspective in order to feel that change.

If you have a go to person with whom you just be yourself and you don’t need a filter to enjoy and fake it. That bond becomes so comforting and so pure that you both don’t need anybody else for entertainment.

People will always try to control you and make you feel bad for the decisions you have made, but remember after every struggle there is always a time when it seems its all over, you just cannot take it and it feels nothing is good for you. But when this person comes in your life who makes the struggle even more entertaining and you just laugh it out all of a sudden. You start to enjoy this struggle with happy tears of laugh.

You will get a lot of negative energy in your life but ultimately you will end up with a person who will be there for you no matter what. You both will fight, laugh, and enjoy your life as it is even when you both are at your worst time ever, but still life will seem perfect.

Sometimes celebrating your sorrows and bad times is even better because you must let it out from your system. Everyone in their life will eventually find someone who will be ENOUGH for them. Some will find this kind of bond in their partners, while some in their best friends.

People say you must deal with your sorrows by your own, however every person need a companion and a support who will be there for you no matter what you do, who will keep you in track and push you towards your goals. But most importantly, MAKE YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR OWN SELF.

So, keep on finding yourselves and be positive that its just the matter of time. It will ultimately make stronger and wiser.

DON’T BE SORRY FOR BEING YOU !

And never regret for being with someone who makes countless efforts to add sparkle your life in every way.