PATTERN OF LIFE

Don’t you think it is sometimes frustrating to work every day in the same pattern. However, when you do, the only thing that comes in your mind is the fear of losing from others and specially losing your own self in order to match with the society’s ideal personality. We always try to be good in everything which other people expect you to be that is following the basic norm TO BE PERFECT. But is it fair to your own self?

Sometimes, you just don’t want to feel anything about anyone and just be your own crazy person who doesn’t have to think about anyone else and has the PERMISSION to do anything. Don’t you think the word permission that I specifically used is weird? YES, because nowadays we have to take permission from somebody else to become who we really are!!

For a lot of us this is very normal because from the beginning in home, schools we are taught to take permission from everyone! And we think this is what we have to do and therefore we don’t object over this issue. However, taking permission to become who you really wanted to be is crazy!

Every person has a crazy side within themselves but it’s just that we have to hide it to follow basic standard of the society.

For example, if you don’t succeed, people will give you a tag of LOSER. However, they don’t know that this tag can have a negative impact on one’s mind.

It is fear of losing that crushes one’s goal and self-confidence.  

Is it possible to have life without social pressure, mental tensions, and overthinking? YES! IF YOU ALLOW YOURSELF TO DO SO. However, this becomes delusional as you can’t just escape from things that are happening around you. 

But people won’t let you be ‘YOU’. They will try to pull you down every time you try to push yourself towards your goals.

Some people say thinking constantly about the next work to do will make you a disciplined person. But it is so mentally consuming that makes you want to quit everything and just be yourself. However, you can’t just quit just like that. Because the life you have created for yourself is becoming difficult day by day which is making you unresponsive towards everything and you feel that quitting this chosen pattern of life will you weak and people will make fun of you.

It is often said that a smiling face is all you need but no one really cares about it that what if you are not happy with what you are doing right now. But you don’t even want to change it either because you have a fear in your mind that what if people will laugh at you and the new choices you have made.

Sometimes you just want to slow down and let it go because you have to become a winner in your own eyes and not in the minds of others because mentally pressurizing yourself to be perfect for your family, friends, and loved ones will ultimately frustrate you in some or the other way.

Ever day getting up and realizing that this is not what you want to do with your life will make you hate even more. The feeling of not able to do what you want and sometimes not having a control over it will ultimately make the situation worst!

So, try to be you and the one person others want you to be!!! It all depends on you that how you deal with your situation and the changes you make.

BE YOU PROUDLY!