UNCERTAINTY OF THE FUTURE

Sometimes you feel this is it, this is all you want in your life. However, things don’t work out the way you want it to be. You can’t force things upon yourself and others too. If its mean to be, it will happen. You just have to wait for your turn and relax. You can’t prioritize everything but you can balance everything you want in your life. It can be your career, family, love or friends. You can’t just hold on to something for nothing.

You need to focus what matters to you and fall in love with it. Because my friend, if you have nobody to share your ideas, achievements, sorrows and failures then what kind of a life you are living. You got have a person who listens all your crappy jokes and laugh along with you, with whom have seen all the ups and downs in your life, and who loves you even more with the flaws. However, sometimes the person is in front of you but you still figuring out what kind of a person will be perfect for you. And you make mistakes choosing that one person. But if you won’t make mistakes then how will you figure out that the person you are being with is wrong and the person with whom you should be is ‘right in front of you’.

I know a lot of people have their own philosophy about love but my friend stop searching for love in the wrong person, instead let life attract the person with whom you are meant to be with.

But for that to happen, start loving the flaws in you! Because your flaws make you unique and special. So, don’t waste your time loving someone who doesn’t have the time to talk to you so that you can get to know each other.

Earlier when I used to read romantic novels and even rom-com movies I thought you have to change yourself to become perfect for someone to see the best in you. However, when I think about it know the philosophy that I had was completely wrong. Because you don’t need to change for someone instead you should change for yourself!

However, when you choose yourself over others, they start putting remarks on you because they had a habit of taking for granted and making you guilty about it. But my question is WHY? Is this fair to you? NO. You never stopped them for taking you for granted that is why they just don’t care much about you. You need to step back and notice all the red flags and act upon and LEAVE!

I know loving someone can be frustrating sometimes, but when you actually find THE ONE, then you will have no questions about. It will be just perfect in its own way.

And the puzzle of life will be complete.  

Till then just be who you want to be and I hope you find love in a way you never imagined.

LET LOVE MAKE ITS OWN WAY TO YOU!

Love

JW