ESCAPE FROM YOURSELF

It is often said that what happens with us depends on what our life is destined to be and not what we think is going to happen. But we tend to control things and want the things to workout the way we wish to. 

However, I think that we often tend to get stuck in a situation from where there is no escape. Everything tends to move forward but you are still stuck at one point. In this kind of situation, you don’t know what to do, where to go, whom to talk to in order to know what you actually want in your life. The main question is to be or not to be! 

The choice is yours ‘You want to be in a situation where you are presently’ or ‘actually move forward and fulfill your dreams and aspirations.’

Its like at each and every step you are getting a signal to remove your old patterns and discover yourself and your potential but somehow you are stuck in your own comfort zone. At the same time, you are ambitious but with no wish to fulfill your ambitions. 

It is easy to say to start making changes in your day-to-day life which will take you closer to your ambitions. However, you are not able to do so. In such situations the biggest suggestion I would give is to go with the flow and start talking to yourself about what you actually want. May be what you always wanted to be is not the thing you want. 

These situations are not even easy to handle because when you are facing such scenarios along with it there is a lot of anxiety issues. Most of us at our age think it is very normal to have anxiety issues and over thinking. However, these breakthroughs are steps to depression which leads to being alone and away from others. Being completely in our own thoughts and not being able to express escalate into frustration which in turn leads to aggressiveness and suicidal attempts. 

If you ask me even, I don’t know the solution for such situations. But, the only suggestion from my side I can give isthat take help if you need, express your thoughts to somebody who you can trust and believe that he/she will not judge you in any circumstance. 

Sometimes a helping hand can save you from YOU! And I wish every person would have at least one person to talk to, who knows the real you!

It is not important to have a lot of friends in your life but only one friend who encourages you to move forward and pursue your dreams and aspirations.