TRUST

 

When two people are together the only thing that matters are trust. I think trust is something that keeps you two together. Because even if any obstacle comes along, at least you two have each other.

However, the more trust you have in each other, the more is the probability that one of you will break the trust and lie. Sometimes, people do love each other but can’t be honest with each other. Why? Because, they feel you will not understand them. Even if the person who broke your heart is lying, you will eventually sense that there is something going on. However, you keep ignoring and go on loving the other person.

But, in the end you get to know that from day one, the person whom you blindly trust has been breaking your trust. In that very moment, you realize that love is nothing if two individuals doesn’t have trust on each other. But, even if they do, they are heart broken because the type of person they have chosen for themselves.

You get separated from them, and they are happy without you. They don’t feel a void because of your absence. There will be series of frustration, being disgusted, broken and crying. You will feel nothing inside because that person gave you hope and happiness at the same time. It was easy for them to let you go and love someone else. But you are the one who is left behind and you can’t do anything about even if you try.

With time you realize it was all planned from showing their love for you to letting you go. They were the ones who couldn’t see tears in your eyes and promised you heaven. But they were doing all of these tricks to pass their time. You made huge changes just to fit in their perfection list.

But the real question is “How can you move on?”

Honestly, there is no answer for this. Because everyone has a method of dealing with their anxieties and rejection. However, all I can say someday, for someone you will be a complete package for whom you don’t have to change yourself and be someone who you are not. It is very common falling out of love these days but make sure you don’t fall out of love for yourself. Maybe you meant to go through this journey of self realisation in order to know who you really are and what matters in your life.

You can have many defense mechanisms methods to deal with this kind of situation. But choose one wisely.